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Boyfriend Material by Alexis Hall
Mama O'Donnell's wise words - Live life the way you want to because the people who matter will love you anyway. โค๐
Moments that have matching energy:
- Simon seeing Baz in jeans for the first time
- Luc seeing Oliver in a jumper for the first time
Luc x Oliver
โAnd I was pretty sure this was how love felt: fuzzy and scary and confusing and light enough to whisk you away like a Tescoโs bag on the wind.โ
books I’ve read in 2021: the nobleman’s guide to scandal & shipwrecks (montague siblings, #3) by mackenzi lee
Good news that we deserve 😌
for people who can’t watch the video: THE AMYGDALA CHANGES TRADITIONALLY FOUND IN MOTHERS SHOW UP IN ALL PRIMARY CAREGIVERS REGARDLESS OF SEX
Changes in this part of the brain were previously used to previously used to argue that women are the ideal primary caretakers of children in all cases. And apparently, it’s false. The reason they found these changes in women was that women were already the primary caretaker in almost all cases, not because there’s something inherent to women that makes them better parents.
this is big news for SAHF and single dads!
Yeah
Regardless of sex AND regardless of relation to the baby - that is, adoptive primary caregivers showed the same changes, too. Which means not only are men just as capable of being excellent caregivers for their babies as women are, but that biological parents who choose not to take care of a baby won’t develop those changes but adoptive parents who do choose to do so will.
Providing love and care for a child is what makes you a good parent: not what you have in your jeans or your genes.
